Dear Bertha,
I’m a freshman and going to a high school dance is a new experience for me. I don’t know how I should dance, act or even dress. Do you have any tips you can give me on this? P.S. What about slow dances?
Sincerely, Dancing Dummy
Dear Dancing Dummy,
There are many differences between middle school and high school dances but the first thing you have to remember is that they are much bigger. Everyone is crammed together and the gym may feel like it’s a sauna so wear something comfortable that won’t give you heat stroke. Guys usually wear shirts and polos with shorts or jeans, while girls like to dress up a little in skirts or fun dresses. On the subject of dancing, remember not to take yourself too seriously and have fun. Dancing in a group is always a good time because you’re not as self-conscience and you can belt out all the songs you know. Since “dirty dancing” is not allowed at this school, it’s a good idea to stay away from it; you don’t want a teacher coming over and breaking up the crowd. If you’re thinking about asking someone to slow dance, don’t be nervous, the worst that could happen is that they will say no and you can move on. Both guys and girls ask people to dance, so no matter who you are, don’t be afraid to ask. If you aren’t with someone during a slow dance, don’t worry, sometimes that’s more fun than dancing with someone. Interpretive dance is a popular activity and it’s a good laugh as well. The most important thing you have to remember to do is to have fun because that is entire point of a dance.
